So, I was just thinking about married life. Now that I'm an old married lady (as are quite a few of my friends), it's kind of an odd sensation to know that the "biggest days" of my life are behind me. I feel like many people put so much weight on the day they got engaged or were married. And I completely agree that they were big, great, huge, memorable, fun, exciting, exhausting days! And if I'm being completely honest, there are things that I would go back and change if I could (e.g. Engagement Day: I accidentally threw a door into my husband-to-be's face...oops. It really was an accident! Wedding Day: There were a lot of pictures I wish I had, people I wish I'd been able to spend time with, etc.) Obviously, none of these changes would affect where I am today. I mean, I know that other people might remember our wedding for the cake flavor or the hot as hell dance floor.
But I get to remember it as the day I started the rest of my life with my best friend. That's why my wedding day was perfect, for me. And knowing that, each and every day, is what is most important. I've said it before, and I hope and pray I remember it every day of my life: I would have married D while wearing a potato sack dress, in the courthouse, with PB&J sandwiches for dinner...just so long as we were married. (Insert sounds of people yacking...)
What I'm trying to say is that there are lots of days in my past, and hopefully in my future, that were or will be the "biggest day" of my life! And they all hold a special place in my heart and memory. But I want to live knowing that TODAY is the best day of my life. Knowing that TODAY is better than yesterday was, loving my husband, my Lord, my friends...and that it will be if I make it so. I hope that today will be the best day of your life, and I hope that I always wake up and remember that today will be the best day of my life!